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9.30.18 – A look back into 2015-2016: The Start of the “Fear Battle”

So I’m sitting here with the Lord this morning, and I am led to opening up the drawer of our dining room table. There I find my old journal from 2015, starting in early September. I opened it up and I saw this in large letters, starred and circled….

“Fear Battle”

And then it says, “Don’t partner with fear.”

I realized this was the moment I knew that I had to start moving forward in facing fears that were crippling me.

This is when it really began. It was a slow start, but it was a start.

Flipping through the pages, day by day, I see things falling into place. I’m so glad I journaled during this time because I’ve gone through phases in my life where I’ve only journaled off and on, but when I started this particular journal I think I knew that I needed to document what the Lord was going to do in my life so that I could look back and see what He has done through the process of healing.

A couple of days into this journal I see where I wrote,

“Jesus, help me to know what bandaids I need to rip off! Show me what’s next for me!”

And then I read a devotion that day and I had noted, “Wow… this devotion was right to me!” And I noted these things…

“Unbelief”

“Adventurous trail”

“Wholehearted yes!”

In the next few pages of my journal I noted things I needed to ask forgiveness of, areas of shame and guilt I was dealing with, people I needed to ask forgiveness of, and things like this. We were also going through trying to sell our house, after having it on the market for a while and we were feeling discouraged about this, but trusting in the Lord’s timing.

On 9/27/15 I made a note at the top, “Day 1 Physical Healing Process” and it was significant because it was the first time I stood to ask for prayer for healing of diabetes. I had been afraid to do that for a long time, it was one of those completely irrational fears (and yet it seemed so real and legit to me) but by the grace of God I stood for prayer that Sunday and not only was that huge for me in battling that fear, but it was a significant step in the healing process, well I had noted it was “Day 1” so there you go. 🙂

For many days in my journal I proclaimed truth… the truth of who I am in Christ, the truth about His love for me…

There were days that were a harder battle too… I had noted a time when I had another panic attack in the night and Jason had prayed for me. I wrote about what happened and I just thanked the Lord for being my Help and taking me through that battle and I rejoiced in what He has done, and what He was doing, and what He will do.

Here’s an interesting journal entry.

Sunday, November 1st of 2015:

“Feeling so insecure today, Lord! Help me! Let me not be self-consumed today!”

This was during a time when going to church was so hard for me. Being uncomfortable was something I ran from quite often, and church was an uncomfortable place for me. Usually it was a struggle to go every Sunday morning.

I wrote a line in the page and under it (meaning that I added a note for later in the day) I noted that my pastor had asked me if I’d like to bring my camera and take some photos at church on Sundays sometime….

This was significant because the Lord then began to use photography, something that I am comfortable with, to help me a little bit with being in that “uncomfortable” place. Pretty neat how the Lord used photography to help me into that uncomfortable place.

This began a whole new thing in my life.

I stepped into a new season. A season of coming out of hiding and into the Light… finding a place of community with other believers who could help me through the coming seasons, the tough times and challenges ahead.

In the coming months, going into 2016 we finally sold our house and moved into our friend’s basement until we had a house to move into.

The same day we sold our house, we drove to Charleston to photograph a wedding and all of our photography gear was stolen right out of our hotel room. This could have been the end for us, but the prayers and help of our friends and family — and complete strangers too, carried us through. The Lord carried us through. I think of the verse, Isaiah 54:17, “No weapon formed against you shall prosper…” What a time that was! I rejoice in those times! The Lord restored us far beyond what we ever had before.

Fast forward a couple of months…

“Father, please keep maturing me and growing me into who I am in You, who You have intended and created me to be!”

(Uh oh! I don’t think I knew what I was asking for!)

Not too long after that I had some more intense battles with fear and intimidation…

I read notes in my journal of my blood sugar levels going higher… and dealing with stress… anxiety…discouragement…

And many questions for the Lord…

Then after a few days of this I asked the Lord to help me with my bad eating habits because they weren’t good at that time. He had revealed to me that my bad eating habits were a hindrance. I was eating because of stress (fear). I’ve struggled with this for a while, I’ve taken steps forward and have often struggled backwards… But that year was the first step. (Since then the Lord has shown me a lot more about my eating!)

In the coming days there were victories, battles, troubles, more victories, and more and more battles, some that took me forward and some that set me back…but I was finally starting to take steps to moving forward.

Then I came to the end of this 2015-2016 journal. A lot has happened since that journal.

As I look back on what the Lord started in me in that year of my life, I just feel so thankful. Seeing how He is working and taking me on this “adventurous trail” reminds me of His faithfulness. He is so patient with me –patient, and yet He loves me enough that He won’t let me stay where I am.

When we ask Him to grow us, to give us more life, to help us down the path, He will. His answer is “YES!” We just have to say “Yes” too! It won’t be easy, it may take some time, but it’s worth it. I am still facing fears, and I will always face fears on this side of eternity, but I know that my Savior is taking my hand and walking before me, leading me onward. I don’t know where it will take me, but I trust Him, and I am going there with a “wholehearted yes“!

Why? Because He is worthy. He is worth it all.

“But He was pierced for our rebellion, crushed for our sins. He was beaten so we could be whole. He was whipped so we could be healed.” – Isaiah 53:5

–Heather

3 thoughts on “9.30.18 – A look back into 2015-2016: The Start of the “Fear Battle”

  1. Good post Heather…I too born again believer who struggles with fear and insecurity for pretty much all of my life. God who had saved me since 2003 and still is the author and finisher of my faith is still at work with me.
    I struggle alot with twisted spiritual thinking since i got baptised and i had let that trial paralize me so much with fear and anxiety and my relationship with God as my father.
    Just in the recent week..i have decided that no matter what thought that didnt align with truth or holiness pop in my head or twist my reasoning and meditation…i will choose to trust my Savior and God who still loves me and has me in His mighty Hand.
    I pray that God use you and these posts to help others see His truth and faithfullness He has in store for His beloved.
    Vicky

    1. Hello Vicky! Thank you so much for stopping by to read, and to share what the Lord is doing in your life. That is just so wonderful to hear. Isn’t God just so good… to be so faithful to not leave us? He has promised to go with us, to lead us to what He has for us when we follow Him. He will see us through. He’s our Deliverer!

      Bless you!
      Heather

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